In this episode Olwethu looks at the  importance of choosing your partner intentionally.  So after the pheromones have worn off and the butterflies have stopped fluttering- is this honestly the time to start thinking about and even discussing what we really expect from a partner or a relationship?  Or should all of this have been declared upfront?

Olwethu speaks to the fun, thoughtful and irreverent Umhlobo Wenene DJ, TV host and social media influencer Spitch Nzawumbi about boundaries in relationships and how to understand, negotiate and declare your deal breakers.  What’s a hard no or a maybe so for you?

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